I am not actually a resolutions type of person (I know, I know). I think it can be intimidating and can end up being counterproductive when you break the resolution. Instead, I like to set goals for myself. If I have an off day for one of my goals, nothing is “broken” like a resolution. Instead, I can simply try again the next day. I think it makes me feel like my motion forward is working towards something instead of away from something.
It helps to narrow down the focus when you first start thinking about your goals for the next year. The easiest place to start is to look at the different parts of your life.
Maybe you want to work on reducing debt or building your savings account. Are there student loans that need to be paid off? Are your spending habits getting out of hand? Now is the time to set your financial goals! And it doesn’t have to be a big one — pay off one small credit card balance; save $5 a week; send the credit card company an extra $20 a month.
Earlier this year, my mom moved from Fort Collins, Colorado to the Texas hill country. And I am so excited to have her close by. She’s only a three-hour drive now instead of a three-hour flight! I’ve made a point to go visit one weekend a month since she got back to Texas. (Of course, in February with the polar vortex, the weekend turned into eleven days but that’s another story.)
What are your family goals? Do you want to make it to more of your child’s soccer games? Do you want to reconnect with the cousin that lives across the country? Do you want to cheer on your nephew’s new football team?
For the most part, family goals involve one thing — spending more time with them. Whoever “them” is to you!
I thoroughly enjoyed my book club at the public library before the pandemic, but it shut down in March of last year and has yet to resume. (I also loved the monthly Monday night of coloring!) But as much as I miss the activity of reading (or coloring), I greatly miss the social part as well.
We recently visited the Dallas Arboretum with friends, and it was so much fun to walk and talk and laugh. Zoom was a great way to stay in touch when necessary, but I think we’ve all missed the human connection. It just isn’t the same over the computer screen.
Do you have social goals for next year? Join a new group? Set up monthly dinner dates with your friends? Try a new skill through a continuing education class?
Decluttering is always a goal for me. I don’t know how it happens, but I will take a bundle of items to Goodwill and then *poof* something happens and my tee shirts have reproduced in my closet. And let’s be honest, that really gets out of control at the holiday time.
There are studies that show clutter can increase levels of the stress hormone cortisol. Being disorganized can also make it harder to maintain your focus.~ WebMD
Health and Self-Care
About a month ago, a blood test at my doctor’s office confirmed something that I already suspected, that there are some changes going on in my physical health. So personally, my primary health goal for next year is to learn more about this and some alternatives to the standard treatments that I am not able to use.
On a related note, I think my self-care goals will include trying to get back into yoga and trying to tame the frizz in my hair!
Health and self-care have taken such a winding road in the last couple of years. They’ve taken a beating with all the ups and downs and emotional strain; but they’ve also become quitter the spotlight topics for many people.
So what do you want to focus on for your health and self-care? Exercise more regularly? Eat more fruits and vegetables? Get haircuts at the “recommended” six-week intervals? Ultimately, make sure that your health and self-care goals make you feel like the best you that you can be. It is essential for meeting any other goals you will set!
I hope this makes you think about all the things you can accomplish in the next year!